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05 August 2012 @ 09:28 am
I'm Hopefully Back  
I know I've been absent from here for a long time and I'm truly sorry.  I hope to catch up on fics because I know that they are a lot of work and it's a gift that they are shared with us.

As most of you know, my husband died.  His official date of death is July 2, 2012.  He was in Hawaii so the kids, my parents, and I flew over for a memorial and the start of getting the affairs in order.  We had a funeral and burial here as well.  I'm elbow deep in paperwork, but am starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel.  

Prior to the death, my youngest son was a victim of a violent crime.  We were in the middle of dealing with that when my husband disappeared.  The guys who did it have a court date on 9/24.  On one hand I want them to plead out so my son doesn't have to testify, but on the other hand, I want them to go to prison for a very long time.

Anyway, I'm hoping to get my life back to some sort of normalcy soon.  I appreciate all the love and support I've received so far.  
angus_honeyangus_honey on August 5th, 2012 06:13 pm (UTC)
Welcome back. You shouldn't worry about your absence...you had bigger things going on.

I had no idea about your son. How absolutely awful for one thing to be piled on top of another. How is he now?

I must say you sound very positive and, tbh, that's the only way forward...you cannot change anything that has already happened but learning to live with it and trying to move on is the only thing you can do.

Take care. Speak soon.

maxierocmaxieroc on August 5th, 2012 07:52 pm (UTC)

Welcome back, so sorry to hear your terrible news, so sorry about your husband.

Hope your son is doing better, sorry to hear about that as well, I know it will be hard, for him but hopefully the guys get put a way.

Take care

Eye See...Seven Ate Nine: Addicted to Beeric789 on August 6th, 2012 06:04 pm (UTC)
Glad you're back, you've been through such an ordeal!!! The paperwork is so amazingly copious, and probably the most difficult to get through, good luck. I hope that your youngest son is coping as well as he can with everything. And again, I'm so sorry for you and your family's loss. **Many Hugs!**